Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Sadness and Happiness

Yes, there is such a thing as sadness. Not everyone in the world is happy. Most of the time it's usually people keeping them-self in a state of no hope and "nothing's going to get better" yet they don't do anything to try to improve their situation or even search for happiness. I can't say that I've never been in that state, but it was usually only temporary. When people are already in a negative mood, it's just normal to feel like that. In my opinion, what matters is getting out of that state. Friends, a positive attitude, positive environment, and time will help people that are in a state of no hope. If you see someone's down, you should go try to talk and help them even if they don't want it. Try to make them smile even if you have to do the most ridiculous things to get a smile on their face. You never know; you could've saved someone's life at that moment or maybe changed a course of someone's life from going downhill to uphill. It's easier to fall down than to get up. A lot of people would choose to take the easy way out, but in reality, there is no easy way out unless you were born into a rich family or something. Nobody said life was easy and there is no guide to life. People have to experience moments, learn from them, and figure out the simple question "What will make me happy and how will I obtain that happiness?" For me, I realized that making someone's day makes me happy even if I'm in a bad mood and things are going so great. The feeling of making someone else better just makes myself feel better. This is also a reason why I make stupid, embarassing, bad YouTube videos; it's to cheer people up when they're down. I'd like to end this post with a quote from Virginia Satir. "Life is not the way it's supposed to be. It's the way it is.The way you deal with it is what makes the difference."

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